Saturday, November 28, 2015

Showing Up


Sometimes just showing up is a major move forward with recovery!  People get discouraged because they want to see change, but just showing up may be a gigantic step forward in someone's life towards pursuing progress!  Just admitting someone may have a drug or alcohol challenge, even if the person is unwilling to change, can be huge progress!  Just admitting your life isn't working for you may be a first step in beginning to address a challenge with mental health or trauma.  When we are well, sometimes watching those small steps is painful because we want more for the person.  It's important to remain positive and be welcoming, because it takes major courage to sit on the edge of change.  Sitting on that edge may mean just making a connection with someone and trusting them with your presence.  Stay hopeful - you are in connection to what could be the first steps ever taken forward in that persons pursuit of change!  Don't push to hard; just enjoy the miracle of presence!

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