scented candles
scented hand sanitizer
scented soaps
a beaded bracelet
These items were received at a leadership retreat with a theme of healing trauma. I have really not been in tune with my sensory system, aside from a warm bath or hot tea, in this way in a while. The gift sat there for a long while. I was ignoring the invitation to explore.
Then as I was describing self-compassion to a friend, she asked what if you just can't love yourself in giving the gift of compassion to the self. I realized that most of the trauma healing books I have read have explorations of the sensory system in the beginning. This is where we find the self again by deciding what we like and don't like in terms of sensory experiences. Being open and curious about ourselves can deepen our experience of the world. I took the jasmine soap and Laguna candle out of my collection and had a bath. I used to sing in the bath and I rediscovered my voice's mello tones, revisiting 'I cover the waterfront". The whole next day I felt totally connected to my body and like I was enough in myself. I invite you to explore your sensory system and be curious about the self.
No comments:
Post a Comment